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LETTERS TO THE EDITOR

My rugger man lost to dementia

The Sunday Times
Fergus Slattery with his wife, Margot, his son, Cameron, and hi daughter, Nikki
Fergus Slattery with his wife, Margot, his son, Cameron, and hi daughter, Nikki
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I was moved to tears by your article “How dementia stole my rugby star husband Fergus Slattery” (Sport, last week). But then, tears are a regular feature of my life. Like Margot Slattery, I have lost my husband to dementia in the past four years. Now 75, he was a rugby player until his early thirties, including a stint at Trinity College Dublin. Fergus Slattery was a player he much admired.

David Walsh’s article conveyed the tragic impact on loved ones with sensitivity and power. It is impossible for those who do not live it 24 hours a day, seven days a week, to understand; but it helps to know that others are being made aware, which may bring greater understanding and support