The Eitingons by Mary Kay Wilmers

This biography of a hustling Russo-American family is rich, detailed — and ultimately unsatisfying

Most writers, eventually, feel called upon to write their family story. Mary-Kay Wilmers is not a writer, but she is important to writers as the editor (and financial saviour) of the London Review of Books, a journal as highbrow as herself. Her dustjacket picture shows her elegant, beady-eyed, with cropped grey hair, spectacles perched on nose, lips pursed: a thinking, serious person of “editorial pernicketiness”. Having thought about this book for 20 years, she opens with a disarming confession (“When I was fifteen, my mother told me nobody liked me”) and a cogitation on why we keep family letters: “You think you’re interested in their story, only to discover that mainly you’re obsessed with your own.” Her father was sceptical about her investigating her